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It was fun to read all the good advice on making your own baby food. Brought back a lot of memories of raising my now 24 year old, just-married daughter.
I’m sure the books teach you not to add salt or sugar, and to NEVER add honey, as babies aren’t able to metabolize the botulism spores that exist in honey until they are at least a year old (maybe older), and is suspected in some cases of sudden infant death syndrome. I’m an RN, by the way. Always, always put your daughter down to sleep on her back, with no toys/blankets/things that can smother in her bed, as well.
Congratulations on being such a conscientious mom! I, too, determined that I would go the all-natural route, as much as was possible at that time. I used only cloth diapers (unless traveling), breastfed for a year, during the day, and until she was 18 mos. old at night. Carried that breast pump, cooler and all the paraphernalia to work every day for a year! :-) I would have loved to have had the wonderful baby food cookbooks back then, and I remember mashing sweet potatoes and other foods with a fork. I used mainly the jars of squash and spinach, which my daughter loved! No kidding! I recently bought a mini food chopper or grinder, which would work wonderfully for making your own baby food. The KitchenAid model is called the 3 Cup Chef’s Chopper, and I’ve seen them clearanced at Target and other stores for around $20, regularly $40.
I would add that you need to use glass and ceramics, such as Corning Ware, as much as possible, with your baby and your family. Research is now proving that many plastic baby bottles leach harmful toxins into formula/breast milk when heated and that microwaving foods in plastics or covering with plastic wrap while heating leaches the plastics into the foods. In fact, it seems that anything that warms up while in plastic is dangerous, such as leaving bottled water in the car, where it gets warm. Sheryl Crow states that this is how she got breast cancer. I’ve been buying up Pyrex baking dishes, pie plates, bowls at tag sales and auctions and have a wonderful collection, each bought for $1 or less. Washing and reusing plastic bottles and some plastic containers is also dangerous, so it is better to just go back to glass and ceramics, whenever possible.
I traveled all over the US for meetings with my job at least four times a year, and within the state frequently. My company allowed me to drive and to take my mother and daughter with me, so they stayed in the hotel room while I was in meetings and then we had fun seeing the sites and finding nice restaurants when I was finished with business. That little potty chair was set up on the side of the road, with the door and Mama providing privacy, all over the United States! :-)
When she was past the baby stage, I always packed zip lock bags of Cheerios with a few miniature marshmallows, and small bottles of water, for the trips. That kept her happy in her carseat in the backseat, until we just started into whatever major city we drove through. That’s when she always tuned up and started crying for Mama! :-) I learned to drive in horrible traffic and rain with a little one screaming in the backseat, because there were no safe places to pull over, and because that didn’t satisfy her, anyway, the time or two I tried it. Sometimes, you just have to drive on for ten minutes and let them scream!!! Tears your heart out, but you both live.
Speaking of potty chairs, potty training couldn’t have been easier. When she was close to 18 months, I set up a potty chair in the bathroom; and every time I went, I put her on the potty chair with a Little Golden Book. After just a few times, she went (probably accidentally) and I clapped and cheered and called Daddy upstairs and we all clapped and cheered. She loved it, and started wetting her diaper only a little at night.
However, just after this, we had to make a trip to Denver; and she caught a bug and had the vomiting/diarrhea during that trip. So, when we got home, I gave her a little time in diapers, because I didn’t want to pressure her at all; and then she kind of naturally went back to sitting on the potty chair and retrained herself with no stress. The big thing is to not pressure the little ones, just make it fun and really make a big deal out of them being successful.
For the really hard to train kids, I’ve heard of putting little toys in a clear plastic fishbowl and keeping it up somewhere like the top of the refrigerator. Every time they are successful on the potty, they get to pick out a toy. That’s supposed to work like magic.
Anyway, congratulations to all you great mothers on this site. Great mothers rock, and they truly make the world go ‘round. Try to take care of yourselves and don’t be afraid to ask for help, once in awhile, so you can refresh, restore and then get back in the game. When your little ones are all grown up and married, you’ll look back at these precious years and see that they are the best years of your life.