J.C.
I was in your same boat and chose to have the Mirena inserted. I really didn't have problems with having it put in or during the course of the yr that I had it.....it was trying to have it removed that cause the most problems. Long story short, I ended up with a D&C because it wasn't coming out. Right now I use a product called VCF that you can get out at Walmart. You don't have to use a condom with it, but you can. It is just a foam that you insert into your vagina before intercourse and it protects against pregnancy. If you want to know more about my IUD story just ask and I would be willing to share. Good luck in your search and I hope that you find what works for you.