M.P.
I sometimes come off as rude, mainly cause I think I am a know it all. I dont know it all, but I try to sound like I do...lol. I try not to be rude, but I know my sense of humor and dark side occasionally will creep into an answer.
If you sound and post intelligently I will answer in like, if the post sounds ridiculous, troll like, or flaming.. I answer rudely or flippantly. If it is something I am passionate about, I do try to be as tactful as possible, though I honestly think its the reader who will find something rude, rather than the poster actually being rude. We can not put eye rolls, sighs, shrugs, tension, smirks, giggles, and the thousands of other things in there that gives off the true intention of the posters meanings. I didnt think what you posted, or the replies were all that bad.