C.C.
Hello K.,
How old is your daughter? I am a nurse and the best advise I can think of to give you is to contact the American Academy of Pediatrics and ask for their opinions on immunizations. Also, you might want to contact the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), CDC.gov. They have wonderful resources that you can query.
If your physician is becomming aggressive with you, then you need to move on. That is inappropriate professional behavior - he is there to assist you with your health care, not dictate it. My question would be, if he is aggressive and intense with a parent, how will he approach an infant or child?