hi again M. !
i do all the same things - i only get 1 vx a yr, don't start giving them until baby is over a yr old and choose which ones i want (which is NONE of the newer ones). and we cosleep and delay starting solids and never ever give our kids cow's milk ... all the things they ask about at a ped, we do our own way or contrary to what they advise. needless to say, we've had to switch peds a few times to find the right fit! i could give you quite a long list of who *not* to go to, LOL!
we've finally settled in for the last 6 yrs at beverly hills peds. they have 2 locations, one in bingham farms and one in sterling hts. we love all the drs. there but the very best / ap supportive ones are the founder, dr. dorsey and dr. cheryl. we see dr. cheryl almost exclusively, she is fully supportive of all the ap things we do and is very against circumcision - i love her ! their main # is ###-###-#### and the east ofc that is closer to our area is ###-###-####.
you have to r/m who ever you pick that you employ them, not the other way around. i also learned to just say 'we are doing fine' when they ask about where baby sleeps, what they eat, if they're on cow's milk yet. to me those are parenting questions, not medical/health ones. i go to a ped for medical issues and that's it.