J.D.
OH Wow. Did I write this???? LOL. I sure could have except my son is the 4 year old and my daughter is the 2 year old. They just started fighting like cats and dogs right before the baby came 4 months ago. Maybe that is part of it. But our solution was to give the oldest his own room and the youngest sleeps in our room. So all three are seperated. I would not put a 2 year old in the same room as a tiny baby. Not at all a safe move. Not saying the 2 year old would purposely hurt the baby but 2 year olds don't know how to handle a baby if it should cry and my son when he was 2 tried to pull his sisters arm and leg through the bars of the crib. He was trying to HOLD her cuz she was crying. She had bruises from that. Ever since we have just had the baby in our room. To be safe. LOL. He didn't mean it and loved his sissa but it was something we had to do. She did go in his room when she was about 6-7 months old. but she was also sleeping in a playpen at that point. the crib we had at the time as just a small one from the 50's (family)
I hope you get some good advice as to what to do. I myself should write in and see what advice I can get to get them to quit fighting. They just seem like they can't stand each other. Must be the age! Its funny one second they are hugging and then the next they are screaming and hitting. crazy. Talk laterz. J.