deleted thanks for responses decided I'm just moody and over reacting today. :-)
Well, it annoys me when people delete the body of their post. But I like how you say you're moody and overreacting, that's cool. Hey, we've ALL had those days, you know?
Peace to you Sista!
:)
This woman gets your best friend involved in recreational drugs? Your best friend does this? If she's your best friend, you should be able to tell her you don't think this other woman is a good influence and that you'd rather not be associated with her.
She doesn't sound like much of a friend. I don't care how much you have in common, I think I'd find other friends.
Ugh. I can relate. I have a friend who will do this sometimes. She CANNOT do anything by herself. I mean, she basically doesn't go anywhere alone. If she is meeting me somewhere, she already has someone with her. If she goes to a family gathering, she brings "extras". She has always been this way. Just part of her personality, which I love. That she is so giving and welcoming to others, especially if they don't have local family themselves, etc. But sometimes, I wish that when we made plans it was really just her and me, so that we could have time to talk privately. Ya know?
So, yeah... I get it. I don't see any reason NOT to invite another friend along... so go for it. :)
get another friend involved on your end and try to get through it, then after the holiday mention how much you miss your one on one time together in a sweet card with a boquet of flowers and wish her a happy new year with more fun with just the two of you to come.
Like you said it's kind of too late for this one but I would talk to her after you get back and let her know how you feel. If ya'll are BFF's she should understand. I have had friends like that too and I just have to tell them stop. And that there are just some people I don't want my kids around and that is one of them.
Good luck and God Bless!
First of all if there are drugs involved regardless of friendship...Umm drugs are illegal and I would stay as far away from that as possible. Nothing good can come from it. Not only that but if there as a drug bust do you really want to be caught in the middle. Stay clear away from this situation.
If it's a constant thing, and if she's your BFF, you should be able to talk to her about it. She should have the courtesy of asking you before she invited a bunch of people you don't really know or don't really care for. If she doesn't understand where you're coming from, then she isn't really a good friend.
