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Hi C.! I really do feel for you. I have a step-son that is now 6 but he's been in my life since he was only 5 months old so I think of him as my own. My husband and I have been in this same situation. I just moved here to Florida, so I really don't know much about laws down here but what I can tell you is that your husband will feel a lot better if he tried to do something than not. Is there a current custody order? In PA, if there isn't, both parents have the right to keep the child. You should definately contact a lawyer. Try legal aid. I believe if both parties would qualify, the funds go to whichever party applied first. That would really help. My husband and I spent close to $10,000 on a lawyer for a custody matter that lasted almost a year and a half. We didn't win but at least we tried. When he grows up and can understand, at least we can tell him we tried...And definately keep a record of everything. We would take date-stamped pictures and I kept tract of everthing in my planner. It really makes your case a whole lot better in court if you have documentation. Good luck with everything and God bless that little girl.