Hi A.,
I too, am the bill payer in the household! (But aren't all moms?) I don't think my husband has even *seen* our little bills book in years and years! Anyway, as to how we pay our bills, we completely do it online. Saved us a lot of headaches, stamps, envelopes, and checks over the years. When we started it took us a while to set it up and get used to it, but once we were up and running it only took about an hour max to complete all our bills. So - we don't do billpay through our bank account at all. What we did was to go to each of the websites for all our bills (credit cards, charge cards, electricity, utilities, etc) and then setup online accounts. From there we can indicate a bank account to pay from (we never do automatic payments) and sign up for paperless statements (we hop online if we need to see a statement). This 1) lessens the paperwork we get each month in the mail and 2) makes it easy for us to see any statements (plus you don't need to ever store any more paperwork!) The downside is you need to record a few things: we got an accounting journal and listed all our online accounts (charge cards, credit cards, cell phone, utilities, etc) - for each bill we have the login & password next to it so we'll never forget. For each month, there's a column so we can just place a checkmark and write down the confirmation number we get when the bill is paid online. Yeah, sounds complicated, but now dear hubby can pay the bills anytime and we have a running record of what we paid each month and quickly compare if we're spending more each month on something. Granted, we still pay our landlord by check, but we keep asking when he's going to let us pay him online! Haha.. good luck!