I guess you are talking to me!!!
We did everything we did planning on my not working...so we made sure we could live off my husband's salary.....I admit I've worked at times while my kids were younger but I've always gravitated back to home....
I am a "drill sergeant" - no means no. You don't hit girls (although I've said if you are W. enough to hit, you're W. enough to be hit back)...
Yes Ma'am and No Ma'am....Yes Sir. No Sir. Firm handshakes. Good grades are expected in school. We aren't looking for perfection but we are looking for them to always do their best.
We are working hard to raise our kids with values...no swearing, keeping them informed on social situations and how to best judge and avoid certain situations....especially since our oldest is 11....
I do the house work, cleaning, laundry and grocery shopping...yes, hubby will run to the store, etc.
I don't make their lunches for school - they like the school lunches but they do ask for them every once in a while and I fix it. I make my husband's lunch every day..make sure he has coffee when he wakes up as well...by no means am I a "Stepford" wife...but I do make sure things are tidy (well, right now, it's not!!) but you get it....
our kids have chores and earn an allowance...things are just not "given" to them. They are rewarded for good behavior...and have consequences for poor behavior.
I'm happy with the way things are....I sell things on ebay to make funny money for me...we have no debt but for the home mortgage...although that might change if we have to buy a new car for me.....URGH!!! I don't want to deplete the savings account for that!!!
Updated
I guess you are talking to me!!!
We did everything we did planning on my not working...so we made sure we could live off my husband's salary.....I admit I've worked at times while my kids were younger but I've always gravitated back to home....
I am a "drill sergeant" - no means no. You don't hit girls (although I've said if you are W. enough to hit, you're W. enough to be hit back)...
Yes Ma'am and No Ma'am....Yes Sir. No Sir. Firm handshakes. Good grades are expected in school. We aren't looking for perfection but we are looking for them to always do their best.
We are working hard to raise our kids with values...no swearing, keeping them informed on social situations and how to best judge and avoid certain situations....especially since our oldest is 11....
I do the house work, cleaning, laundry and grocery shopping...yes, hubby will run to the store, etc.
I don't make their lunches for school - they like the school lunches but they do ask for them every once in a while and I fix it. I make my husband's lunch every day..make sure he has coffee when he wakes up as well...by no means am I a "Stepford" wife...but I do make sure things are tidy (well, right now, it's not!!) but you get it....
our kids have chores and earn an allowance...things are just not "given" to them. They are rewarded for good behavior...and have consequences for poor behavior.
I'm happy with the way things are....I sell things on ebay to make funny money for me...we have no debt but for the home mortgage...although that might change if we have to buy a new car for me.....URGH!!! I don't want to deplete the savings account for that!!!