K.B.
We hated being assigned a table, but our best friends love it. They go with 20 adults and 11 kids all sitting at one huge table every night for dinner. That means no one orders until everyone is seated. She swears they only had to wait 10 minutes at the most. When we were on our honeymoon, we spoke up and insisted we get one of the tables for two.
Do NOT go during Spring Break or Christmas because of all the kids. If you could go during school, it would mean fewer kids.
You can save a lot by booking together and going to vacationstogo.com
I don't work for them, but I have gotten deals with no mistakes. The fullpriced travel agent gave us "freebies" but screwed up several times so I would have rather paid much less.
You don't HAVE to dress up, but it is fun once you are there to join in on formal nights. The photos are top quality. Also, if you KNOW you will be doing shore excursions, you can prebook before you go. Especially ziplines that sell out months ahead of time. There are sometimes cheaper prices for shore excursions on shore, but sometimes the company running them cut corners and I want a safe, fun, guaranteed time. I once got half back from Princess on an excursion that was not as we were told.
The cabins and the showers are small. I would get your own room, not adjoining anyone. Oceanside is worth it to have your own balcony. It was so exciting to see the whales and other animals in the wild. Plus, it seems bigger with a patio.
Get off the ship in every port. Seriously. Even if you think you will hate it. Past the cruise ship owned port(like a sanitized version), visit the local area. Take a taxi and tour around. We ate the food in every country and never got sick. We shopped and bartered in the real markets.
I am not into clubs, but we went to look and people were having a lot of fun and dancing. Also, let them know it is your anniversary. They have special games for newlyweds and those renewing. The prizes are cruise souveniers and credits.
Don't look down on activites as for old people. Try everything once. The bingo was led by a comic who was hysterical. The fanciest dinner included a parade of deserts ending with one on fire. The shows were like Las Vegas. There are sports and virtual sports.