Hi R.,
I have some experience in this field. I use to model (since I was about 2 until about 22). I lived in NJ and then moved to Mami when I was older to do it right, but most experiences are similar despite the state. First of all you have to remember....give NO MONEY AT ALL. If they ask for money...I GARUNTEE it is A SCAM! Think of it this way....it is a business, if they are truely interested they are because they know they will make money with your daughter (and for her if you have a decent agent!). If they see dollar signs in her they will front the money for her pictures, book, shoots, tests, castings,etc. They will see her as an investment. There are no fees that you should have to pay ever, etc. If it's a scam (and there are PLENTY of them) they will be very persuasive about making excuses to get your mony, but remember that this is what the do to make a living, so DON"T give any to them. If you find an honest agency (and they're out there too, just not in as mass quantities as the scams) and they're interested, then you have a shot so GOOD LUCK :-) Thats the buiness end of it. In my experience it was a tough business with tons of rejection, so make sure nothing is ever taken personally, but it was also the best and most rewarding experience of my life. As with anything it has its pluses and minuses, but as long as your daughter enjoys it I would say stick with and know that it takes time sometimes.Some kids love it and were made for it...others never really like it. So I would at least give it a shot. If she doesn't like it you can always opt out in the end, but if u don't try it and she may have loved it you will never know. But that's only my opinion...do what u think and feel is right as her mother. If you and your daughter are true to yourself (which is challenging in the biz) you will be fine and have a blast! Good luck and have fun :-)
P.s. Remeber to always do your research before accepting any offer. I don't just mean on the internet either b/c thats where most faulty businesses can look professional. Ask to speak with current clients, check out the BBB, credentials, recent work (magazine prints, ads, etc) they have done with children, etc. It will be worth your time in the end. As I also agree with the mothers before me...it is a good idea to send pics into major agencies in major cities. Most are well established and credited businesses. they do well because they know what they are doing and have experience. And sending in some pics are FREE! (they will always want a head shot (close up) and full body....along with possible other suggestions...and most times simple polaroids are best!