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You need to be completely happy and satisfied with yourself and your own life first. When you have that inner glow, the right guy will appear. And, he'll only appear when you aren't looking. They say it takes 6 months for every year you were married to completely let go of your baggage.
Before that, if you date while you're healing, or before you've done your own internal work, you'll become impressed with any behavior that's opposite your ex-husband, and overlook red flags about other issues. You'll rationalize with "yes, but he's better than ex" which won't lead you to the relationship of your dreams.
Remember that your first relationship post-divorce is the "rebound guy" which will help your healing but almost never works out in the long run.