J.,
First off, my husband and I love crusing. To me, it is the ultimate vacation. You don't have to do anything if you don't want to, or you can do all kinds of things. The best cruise line we have found is Royal Caribbean (sp). The rooms are a little bigger, the attendents seemed a little more professional. We took advantage of the free shows on board, if you want to eat at the "special" restaurants on board, you need to make reservations when you first get on board otherwise they get filled up. We also ordered some fruit and champagne waiting in our room for us when we boarded because you can't get anything to eat right away. You have to go through the safety drills first and it's nice to have that food waiting for you in your room, just a thought no matter who you go through. Don't be fooled by those commercials, saying, "most cruise ships make you follow their routine". That's not true. You can eat in the dining room if you want or don't want, depending on how you want to dress. Some people dressed in tux's and long evening gowns and others were just in a nice dress and nice pants and jackets. But the food you got in the dining rooms (the lobsters and steaks) we also got in other areas of the ship too so if you don't want to dress that night, don't feel like you're missing the best meal. You can get it somewhere else. The shore excursions are a little overpriced for what you get, depending on what you want to do. Sometimes it's fun to go do things. We've done horseback riding, exploring, snorkeling, and some walking tours. So decide what you want to do and have a great time -- personally, we think cruising is a wonderful way to vacation. We can't wait for our son (17 months) to get a little bigger to start taking a Disney cruise so he can get addicted to :o)