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I also have an issue with heavy perfumes and dyes, etc. I've been using Seventh Generation Free & Clear laundry detergent for a number of years now and absolutely love it! I have no problems using it. We have well water, and at certain times of the month, the water gets a taint to it and sometimes smells funny; then I add a little Borax to the Seventh Generation, and the clothes clean up nice, smell good--and I still don't have any issues with dryness or scaly skin.
I also use Seventh Generation liquid dishsoap for washing the dishes. I believe you can get Free & Clear for washing the dishes as well, but for that, I like their Lavender Floral & Mint, which doesn't give me any issues and has a wonderful smell.