H., I have some experience with MRSA. Hope this helps! Fist last summer my 25 year old daughter-in-law had sores in several places on her body that needed lancing and it was MRSA. My son never got it! She used normal precautions, like changing the sheets every day and never using the same towel as him, but nothing really crazy. Now, she has had a few more outbreaks that needed the medicine, and she has ended up right now with what they are calling "chronic hives", that are controllable. She is pregnant now and no one seems to concerned. She is a nurse and her dad is a doctor. Also last fall one of my neices had a MRSA sore on her face (she let it go too long thinking it was a bad zit) and it cleared up quick on the meds. Then her nephew got MRSA on his stomach from HS wrestling mats. He needed surgery and a week stay in the hospital to get it under control. But he is a kid and also ignorned the sores for too long. He is doing fine at 16, he had a small sore on his face last week, but his mom said the doctor just refilled his prescriptions and not to worry to much. None of his 3 brothers or sisters got it when he was so oozing. It seems the thing to watch for are the sores that won't heal and the MRSA seems to cause a great deal of swelling along with the pus. It can look like a boil at first too.
I share your fears, and understand your concern for your family. My son was working on a web site www.lifeaftermrsa.com but I don't know how much he has been able to do on it. Congratulations on the new baby! I know I am looking for research or data on mrsa and effects on the unborn. She is carring my first grandchild, but her family memebers in the medical field are less concerned than I and it is the first grandchild on both sides. Let me know how you are doing and feel free to share your fears with me. I will be praying for you and your family.
J. S