Just scale back. You don’t have to eliminate meat – you just have to stretch it and supplement with inexpensive fillers. Don’t tell the kids it’s because you can’t afford it – make it more of a challenge game with “less of a carbon footprint” and “better health”.
Buy in season – give up strawberries in February, and don’t buy fresh foods from halfway around the world. Give the kids the weekly circular and a sharpie marker, and have the circle the best buys (good education for them too, about what it costs to feed a family!). Get a few cookbooks from the library (free!) and have them look at pictures of what looks like fun. Make each kid the decision-maker for 4 meals each – then do one a week from each kid utilizing the fixings in an organized way (chicken 3 ways, beef 3 ways….)
What were you doing with all the leftovers when you served a meat meal with 3 sides and a dessert? That’s a ton of food so there must have been uneaten portions. Learn to re-purpose those foods in new ways for leftovers.
Put some basic staples in your pantry – things that don’t spoil: brown rice, barley, lentils, dried beans or canned (but dried are cheaper - kidney, pinto, black), pasta (I go for whole wheat – more filling, more fiber), canned tomato puree or crushed tomatoes, frozen veggies (spinach, broccoli, corn, butternut squash, peppers & onions – just plain, not the boil-in-bag with sauces), bread (buy on sale and freeze), pizza dough, chicken and vegetable stock, soy sauce, a few basic spices. Put some potatoes, sweet potatoes and onions in a dark place. Buy eggs – they are cheap sources of protein.
Buy meat when it’s on special, then split and freeze. Do you have a crockpot? It’s great for less expensive cuts of meat, and it cooks all day and then your dinner is ready. It requires prep and organization, that’s all.
Rachael Ray has done many segments on how to cook for the week on a budget – go to her magazine or TV show websites and look for creative ideas. You’ll see ideas for roasting a whole chicken or turkey, which becomes 1 meal “as is” and then the basis for soups, stews, tacos/enchiladas, wrap sandwiches, salad bars. While the poultry is roasting, cook up beans (that you soaked overnight) and brown up some ground beef or ground turkey (or half & half), and create a chili or a hearty soup. Reserve some of the ground meat and mix with onion and some bread crusts (soaked), and make a meatloaf (good for a meal and for sandwiches). Use the ground meat, cooked with some onion or just grab a handful of frozen onions & frozen peppers and frozen corn, and put them in a stripe down the center of a tortilla with some of the beans. Do 6-8 of these and make enchiladas. Put those in the oven with tomato sauce & cheese on top. Add 8 ounces frozen spinach to 3 eggs and 8 ounces of Swiss cheese (small cubes), and pour in a pie plate: frittata. Puree up some butternut squash and mix it with cheddar cheese cubes, mix with cooked pasta: mac & cheese with a veggie base.
Take what’s on sale and create a fun Chinese stir fry – cut up meat or firm tofu, then veggies, stirred in canola oil until crisp tender. Add the veggies into the frying pan for 1-2 minutes each, starting with those that take the longest time to cook (broccoli) and ending with the shortest (celery, mushrooms). I take all those veggies and use them again in soups & stews: carrots & celery in stir fry but also lentil soup or chicken soup, broccoli and zucchini in pizza, onions in meatloaf….
Scrub and trim a sweet potato and an Idaho or Yukon gold potato, add whatever veggies you wish (onion peeled & cut in quarters, broccoli or cauliflower florets, carrots….), put on a cookie sheet and toss in a little olive or canola oil and some herbs of choice (we like dill) plus salt & pepper. Bake at 350 for about 20 minutes, turning once. I do this with my own chicken “nuggets” or tenders – just cut up chicken breasts in nugget-sized pieces, dip in egg and then a mix of wheat germ and whole wheat bread crumbs, quick fry in oil to crisp up, and then finish in the oven on a cookie sheet while the veggies roast in the next pan.
Pizza dough – put a small amount of sauce and some mozzarella cheese shreds on it, then top with what you have to use up. Look at the menu for any pizzeria for ideas: 2 leftover broccoli florets, 2 sliced leftover meatballs, a half cup of frozen spinach (let it defrost and drain), a half cup of chicken, what’s left of a green pepper that’s looking a little soft, …you get the idea.
Dessert: instead of pie, why not use fruit in season or on sale (apples and pears) with some oatmeal (very cheap) and brown sugar to create a fruit crisp. No expense for the effort of making a pie crust, but still sweet and heavy on the fiber.
This can be a great lesson for your kids on how to live economically in college and their 20s!
If you have questions on any recipes, let me know.
Good luck!