S.K.
Hi A.! One of the most important things for me is when a child is responsible for their things (room, clothes, toys, etc.). So, I might have picking up their things and helping with laundry. I don't expect children those ages to do their own wash (smile), but at least put things in the right hamper, and even show them how the washer works (you know, all do it together), fold the clothes, put them back, and so forth. If the problem includes getting toys, shoes, etc. that are in the living room and other parts of the house to their rooms, I might start there with having this on the chart. As we solve that one, change the goal to picking it up off their own floor, and into the drawer, closet, wherever. Don't be afraid to adjust the chart as needed as they start experiencing success with these items (with different items or how many points something is worth or even how many times they need to complete the task). Good luck!! S. K., MFT