Hi J.,
My heart goes out to your cousin, her husband, and your family at this time. She is probably overwhelmed and in the process of searching for any information possible, while dealing with a change of mindset in what she hoped for her child and how she thinks this condition will impact those hopes. I have been working peripherally in the CF field for a few years and helped to develop a positive website for families living with CF. It's definitely not your "generic" site.
It has a section for parents of children with CF, and their stories,and videos about what they went though after diagnosis, and how they are planning for the future, a section for 6-8 year olds with cartoons about CF and games to play during treatment time, 9-12 section with interactive science games about CF and games for treatment time, and videos of 9-12 year olds sharing their feelings on living with CF and what they hope for the future, a section for teens with podcasts, and videos on their lives with CF, and a section for adults with CF with articles, podcasts, and videos. This site is a great place for parents of newly diagnosed.
I know several moms of children with CF, although I would have to figure out an anonymous way to get information to you if they wish to connect with your cousin.
First off I would suggest a few things to help her out on her search for information.
Check out the site I mentioned about CF:
www.CFvoice.com
Other great source:
www.cff.org
(The Stenzel's book is amazing it would be a great resource for your cousin)
Then I would call a local CF chapter, or the hospital they will be using for care and see about any "Family Days." They provide a great source of informaiton.
Also every spring there is a CF bike-a-thon in Lynden, and families, and anyone touched by CF attends. Another great way to meet people with similar experiences.
It is beneficial your cousin received the diagnosis for her baby so young. It will give her a huge advantage in developing a long term care plan for her baby. As for what life will be like for her child, it is tough to say. Different for every child. It is important to stay vigilant about care and medicines, and vitamins and enzymes, healthy fats, and exercise. They all go hand in hand in treating this condition, even when her child seems well.
People are living well into their adult lives with CF with proper care. Although I don't want to paint the picture that this is by any means an easy condition, it requires lots of pills, and clinic visits, and there will be many ups and downs. What used to be primarily a pediatric disease, we now see almost 1/2 the patients in the adult population. This is great news! Medications and treatments have come a long way. I have worked with young children and teens with CF filming their story on life with CF, and dreaming beyond CF and I can tell you that they have been living full lives! I hope this provides hope in a time of worry, and maybe disbelief.
My best to your family,
K.