Hi, L.- I am sorry your are going through this scare, but I am HAPPY I can say what I am about to tell you. At 9 weeks a cystic hygroma was found by u/s. We were sent to maternal fetal medicine to discuss our "options" for diagnosis, blah, blah, blah, Turners, Noonans, fetal demise, awful, awful. They counseled us and told us to return at 11 weeks for another ultrasound. My husband and I were scared and sad and feeling everything you are feeling right now.
Well, at 11 weeks there was NO hygroma. Nor was there one at 20. In fact, our baby boy is one week old! He was 10lbs. 3 oz. at birth and appears just great(babies in our family are all big and robust and he was no different!).
Now, of course, there is a chance something might manifest itself later, but, as of right now, he is perfect!!!!!
I do not know what week your pregnancy is, and that might impact your results. I hope your story turns out like ours. I posted the same question you did and got 3 responses (none negative that I remember), so there is hope. Do remain realistic, though. Just so you know, we opted for no amnio or CVS as we would never have done anything differently with the info we received.
GOOD LUCK and please let me know how you make out.
Barbara