M.W.
Hi,
May I suggest getting a second opinion? It sounds as if you're afraid of having to have the surgery and would prefer to wait it out until menopause. I was afraid too back in 1999. I saw 3 doctors before I decided to have a myomectomy (sp) but so glad that I did. My fibroids were so large that laser surgery wasn't even an option. Today, I hear a lot of new techniques are available but it really depends on what your doctor says is best.
I had to have c-sections for my 2 children years later bc my uterus would not take labor. It was too weak. But other than that, I'm good! I'm 45 now and no fibroids. No extreme periods. No unusual pain. No enlarged uterus making me look like I'm pregnant. (That's the worst!!!)
So, if you are afraid, don't be. :-)