After the birth of my daughter, and started having really horrible pain and indigestion and was hospitalized several times because the pain was so bad. After many tests, a ct scan and an ultrasound, they discovered I had many galstones and would need to have my galbladder removed.The ER doctors wanted me to let them remove my galbladder right then - I was NOT into letting a strange doctor cut me open. So I went home, and hoped that the stones would pass and everything would calm down. Well, it only got worse: my primary care, who is also an OBGYN, told me that quite a few women that have had children need to have their galbaldders removed because of how pregnancy changes the way your body processes protein, fat, and cholesterol.
I got in touch with a gastroenterologist: you need to get in touch with one through your medical insurance, and have he/she do all the galbaldder removal (their specialty is the digestive system in its entirity and they are specially trained to do these surgeries, not just some doc that just does them now and then). You will go in for surgery, and wake up in a recovery room, but in no pain. They hook you up to a pain medicine delivery system that allows YOU to control how much meds you are getting - you must stay overnight because they DO have to cut through your abdominal muscles and need to wait until you poop/urinate before you go home to make sure all the pipes are working. There will be only three tiny incisions somewhere on your abdomen below your right breast. They are NO big deal, and have maybe a stitch or two each that dissolve so you dont have to have them taken out. You will be VERY VERY sore, and feel like you have done a million sit-ups - they will reccommend that you not lift anything more than a pound or so for 4 weeks --- which is a riduculous thing to say to a mother with a small child (my baby was 8 months old then). I took it really easy for about a week - you WILL need someone to take care of your children and chores for you for at least the first 5-7 days, as you really REALLY have to be careful you dont rip your abdominal muscles apart. After that, I just took it realy easy and was careful to lift my child and everything else with only my back and arm muscles. You will find that you are very tired for awhile, and you will have diarreah for a period of 4 weeks to a year (I still have some) as your body adjusts to life without galbladder. The procedure itself is not the hard part: its not too invasive, you recover rapidly, ad there is little pain involved - it is the afterwards watching your diet that is hard. You CANNOT eat anything greasy, fatty, high in cholesterol, or really much that tastes good for at least the first few months, or you will find yourself running to the bathroom 10 minutes after you eat as all of what you have just eaten leaves your body. If you do not watch your diet you may also vomit and be in great pain after eating a spicy, fatty, or greasy meal.
SO the actual procedure itself isnt real painful at all - the recovery isnt bad either, you're just very sore. Watching your diet afterwards is the hard part. Dont be afraid, its a really easy procedure to go through - and very safe.