Going to a New York Wedding!!

Updated on August 05, 2008
R.R. asks from Carrollton, TX
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My husband and I will be attending a wedding at the end of August. I know what I'd wear down here in Texas but not sure for up there!? It's going to be an evening wedding in Buffalo, NY, semi-formal. Any advice would be very helpful. TIA!!

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M.C.

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As far as formality, wear what you'd like to wear, and what you feel good in. I'm from upstate NY, and in general things are MUCH less formal there than here (you can still pick me out as a yankee--I'm the chyck who just went to church this morning without a bit of makeup on). By all means, wear a nice dress, but you'll probably see a range at the wedding, from folks really decked out, to folks, like me, who'll wear a nice simple black dress and consider it dressed up 'cuz I'd wear 2 inch heels (and then take those off and dance barefoot--LOL!). At the end of August, it will likely still be summer weather for there, but that means 75-80 during the day, 50's or 60's at night. There is never any time all year that I would leave the house without a sweater in the evening. Definitely bring a sweater or a wrap, or both. If you get a rainy day, expect a high in the 60's, and you'll want your jeans and sweatshirt. Officially, a heat wave in that part of the country is defined as 3 consecutive days with a high above 90. That happens once or twice a year. You might see it, but you probably won't. That being said, you also CANNOT count on everywhere having AC--my husband (from Mississippi) has complained that he's never been hotter than at my parents' house in July, when it's 85 and humid and no AC to be had (hotels and restaurants DO have AC, as do malls and stores and stuff, just most homes don't).

Okay, enough rambling about that. I do recommend a side trip to Toronto if you have time--and yes, you do now need your passport (this is new, within the last year or two, like for Mexico). NYC is great, but an 8 hour drive from Buffalo, so don't expect to just hop on over. Toronto is about an hour and a half drive. Have fun!

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J.D.

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I would suggest you wear a long gown for semi-formal. Find something unique to you that you feel great in. I love to shop Neiman's Last Call at Grapevine Mills for things like this.

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GL and have a great time!!!

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N.H.

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Hi!
What fun. My husband is from Buffalo and I am from NYC-so your post speaks to me. The first thing you should know about Buffalo is that it is sooooooooooo much cooler than TX in August. You will definitely want to consider that. A wrap or light jacket would be a great idea. At the end of August I have worn sweatshirts in the evening in the NE-it cools down that much(my husband says typically end of August runs about 65-70 at night).That being said though, the NE will sometimes have a heat wave and then it can very much feel like Dallas-but that is rarer in Buffalo than in NYC.

Buffalo is also about a 6 to 8 hour drive to NYC(depending on the route you take). If you have the time I would definately plan a visit to the Big Apple,if not though the Buffalo area is great too. Plan to visit the Anchor Bar in Buffalo-home of the original Buffalo Chicken Wing. Also, take time to go to Niagra Falls(about 20 miles outside of Buffalo) and while you are there you may as well visit Toronto, Canada on the other sides of the Falls(not sure if you will need your passport).

Oh and I agree with the others, wear what you would wear here. You will look great. Tell you the truth ,I think Dallas is more fashion forward than Buffalo.

Have a great time!
N.

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L.M.

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Wear what you'd wear here....you'd be surprised, it gets pretty hot there but it cools off nicely in the evenings (unlike here)...so make sure you bring some kind of a wrap. everyone wears wraps up there...a shawl, pashmina, etc. if you can, try to go see manhattan! that's the real new york. also, go check www.weather.com and you can check the average temperature for that time of year. have a great time! my husband and I just went a couple of weeks ago for our anniversary (kid-free) and we had so much fun!

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D.S.

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Need to know where it is at- location wise - hall, restaurant etc- Im from jersey- NY city and Buffalo deinitely differnt style but where the wedding actually is will help me- semi formal means dress but t length totally fie- outside inside????
I can hook you up girlfriend- just give me details-
By the way- stay a few extra days and def hit the city- no doubt
Buffalo is very north of the city but do-able =
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T.F.

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NY is SO fun. I went with my daughter (now 13) for a girls weekend 2 yrs ago and we had a blast. It does cool off in the evening.

Take the opportunity to go get a nice hot dress that you can also wear for the holiday season!!! As previous poster said...some type of cover might be needed.

Also take time to take in a Broadway show and see all the sights. It is a great place to go!! Have fun

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M.C.

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You can never go wrong with a little black dress, cute strappy heals and a light scarf. Have fun!!

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