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I have restrained and also painted over all kids of furniture. Yes they look great. If you like the basic form and shape of the piece, then refinishing it should do the trick (assuming its done well and your husband has an artistic touch and does not chose a horrible shade). But if you don't even like the lines of the table (shape, proportion), then nothing will fix it to your liking. I have salvaged and repurposed all kinds of older solid wood furniture because most new furniture is constructed so badly. I'd rather refinish something that was constructed with high quality furniture specifications (dove tail joints, no melamine, etc) than buy furniture that was constructed poorly.
(that said, painting is way easier than refinishing in wood stain. If you use a chalk paint, you won't even have to prep or sand the piece before hand. But this it better for an antiqued look where dings and nicks are considered character and not flaws)