Dear C.,
I was just about to write an almost identical request myself. We, too, are vaccinating selectively and I've been using a ped. who is only partially 'tolerant' of this practice and I am getting tired of her critical look every time we go in for a checkup. She's even warned me that her practice might not be accepting non-vaccinated kids for much longer.
I do know a name: Dr. Nellie Grouse (or is it Grose?). She was recommended to me by a friend because she does accept selective vaccination or alternate vaccination schedules. However, for me the problem is that my health insurance does not cover her type of practice (holistic/alternative). If you find anyone, please let me know!
And for everyone who is thinking about vaccinating or not vaccinating (since it appears those people are being addressed generally in the responses you got so far), make sure you are well educated about the matter! The choices are very complex and difficult to make.
Good luck,
G.