R.R.
My husband said that when he first saw M. at a party, he couldn't keep his eyes off M. but thought I was with my husband. He sent M. an email the next day asking if I was with my husband, and I laughed and told him "no, J. a friend". He said he knew at that point that I was the one. It took M. a little while longer. It was so refreshing to talk to someone who loved hearing about the mundane details, and seemed so excited to see M. and be with M.. We've been married 12 1/2 years and he's still excited to see M. every day. He fills that need inside of M. to be adored and loved like that. We are a perfect match. He isn't a perfect person, and neither am I, but we are so great together. I love him so very much, and he's such a relief after my first marriage!