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Just give him a break and some time on his own. See if a little time apart will help and then think about what you just said, if he's the one giving all the time, he's probably not... happy. The one thing you have to remember though is your children. They need both parents equally and if it doesn't work out try to be adult and decide how the kids time will be split up. I'm a step mom and I truly care about my step sons mother, when we met I was nervous she'd be awful, but we talked and decided my step son was the most important thing to us and we do what ever we can to ensure he's healthy and happy and I feel as though he's just as much mine.I've had him 4 yrs now and he's seven. Just do whats best for your kids! If you love him you better fight for him and make the changes to show him. Admit your mystakes and own up to them and try to corract them. If it's not to be, then let him move on to get the happiness we all deserve and be fair about the break-up and the kids. I hope this helps and I hope you find what your looking for. GOOD LUCK!