Oh I am really sorry, that's hard. I have known a couple kids with this condition, my sister had a condition called Rett Syndrome, so I have known people with all kinds of things in my life. The one girl I knew pretty well was a total doll. I loved her a lot. She did pass at a young age but was full of life for all the days she had. I know that is not the best thing to hear right now of course I wish I could say something better. I will say that my mom knows a girl personally who's daughter was diagnosed with skeletal dysplasia (sp?) and was told she would have little or no time with her little one and her daughter was born totally healthy! So not every diagnosis is right, ultrasound is not an exact science. If this diagnosis is correct however, it doesn't mean the baby won't have a happy life and advancements in medicine are being made everyday. My sister was a woman that defied so many odds in her life. Many people in her condition only live into the teens and she lived to be 34, was very healthy until she was about 28 and was a total gift to the world. At her graduation when they wheeled her onto the stage every single one of those high school seniors jumped to their feet hooping and hollering and cheering. She was there in her wheelchair beaming. Somehow a disabled girl who could not speak or walk had managed to grab the hearts of a whole class of kids. So just hang in there, have a good cry and then remember while there is life there is always hope. I have known so many disabled people in my life and they are wonderful. I am so sorry your family is going through this hard time, I will pray for all you, hang in there.