T.D.
We are currently having our son tested for ADHD. I highly reccommend you visit this link:
http://www.russellbarkley.org/adhd-facts.htm
type in - russellbarkley.org if that link doesn't work. There are a lot of untrue facts out there and you will here a lot of advice, take it all with a grain of salt. Reading this website should clear things up. When I lived in Elgin we saw Dr. Wynn Sheade at Associates in Peds. There is help out there, good luck!