T.K.
My 4 yr old son takes a truck thats big enough not to drop in between slats - like a small tonka. My 3 yr old daughter takes her magna doodle. The big pink Babrbie one with the pen thing attached. That way she can draw without losing any pieces. They only have the 1 big toy each and they are responsible for it themselves. They carry it in and out of the stadium. That way I don't hear alot of whining and I dont have to pick up a lot of pieces. It gets me kind of manic when thier stuff is all over the place. I try to always sit near kids thier age so they can make a friend to keep them busy. In my purse I bring gummies and water bottles and maybe a few little goofy gadgets or keychains. I pull 1 little thing out every once in a while if they are getting restless. I also try to take them to a grassy area and have them race each other on some of our umpteen trips to the bathroom. That cuts down the wiggles.