Ideas Please: Early Waking in Almost Two Year Old (4:30 a.m.) Who Is Tired

Updated on January 27, 2009
A.S. asks from Portland, OR
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I posted here awhile back and only heard from one person who suggested co sleeping which, for my son, is not effective as he likes to jump up and down on top of his father and me and make "horsey" sounds.

SO...this time rather than post about all of the things we have tried I will just ask: What have some of you found to be effective tools to helping your toddler to sleep at tad bit later in the morning? That is, past 4:30? I've heard of a radio or light on a timer to push back waking. Any luck with that approach or others? Ideas please and thanks in advance.

Background if it's helpful:
4:30 waking has been going on for six + weeks
Not teething or sick
Child in own room
Successfully sleeping in big kid bed
Nightlight on and darkening shades down
Baby gated in room
Books in room
No loud early morning noises
Not asking for food or drink (and no longer breastfed)
Not asking for diaper change, not yet potty learned as is not interested
Bedtime and nap time are still both appropriate

Update: He is very tired by nap time (12:00) and usually only sleeps for an hour and a half. This is his only nap. We have also tried flexing his bedtime - both forward and backward - resulting in no change in his waking habits. He falls asleep around 7:30 or 8:00.

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K.C.

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Well, I actually was thinking the opposite of what the others posted. It sounds to me like he might be too tired. What if his nap was earlier in the day? If he wasn't super tired by nap time he might actually sleep longer. I am guessing that your goal is also to consolidate the sleeping, but 2 is pretty young to give up naps from everything I have read/seen. My son is an early riser too, not quite that early, but just like you it doesn't seem to matter what time he goes to bed. He is 3.5 and still takes a nap, about 2 hours most days (although I think we are just now starting to move away from needing one every day), he goes to bed at 7:30(ish) and wakes up anytime between 5:30 and 6:30. His sleep has always been better when he gets enough of it. A couple thoughts about why the 4:30 (based on our experience since this was a favorite time for a while): at my parents house our son wakes when their neighbor starts his car for work, not really a loud noise but enough to give him signals about waking up; also, it seems to me that the time I am most likely to pull the covers up because I am cold is around 4:30, I think my son is often waking up at odd hours in the night these days because he is cold, in fact, I turned the heat on in his room tonight to see if it helps. Whatever you decide/figure out, good luck getting more sleep. I understanding needing time for yourself without him which makes it pretty hard to go to bed at 8:30 so you can get enough sleep.

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B.B.

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He may need to stop napping or take a shorter nap during the day.

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C.T.

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I'm not sure how much I can help you out here because I didn't really have this problem with my daughter. But I'll give it a try, Have you tried putting him to bed at a later time? I've heard that 2 year olds only need a minimum of 13 hours of sleep a day. It may be that with your sons nap(s) time he may be getting more than enough sleep which is making him want to wake up early. What time to do you put him to bed? If he's getting two naps a day maybe try cutting back to one nap time and see if that doesn't help a little bit.

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G.R.

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Hi Alisha - I have an early riser kid who is now almost 8yrs old. To this day he will wake up between 5:30-6am, no matter what time he goes to sleep, I think it is when he wakes up knowing that he needs to use the bathroom but wont go back to sleep (says he is not tired anymore). Because he wakes up this early my kids have a 7pm bedtime, he may not fall asleep right away but at least he is in bed, giving him a better chance to hit the sleep amount that he needs (plus it gives Daddy & I more time in the evening!). We have given him a clock so he can see what time it is in his room without coming to our room & asking if it is time to get up. Your son may not be old enough for that yet but it might be worth a try along with a chart next to the clock with what time is OK to get up, etc (then have a sticker chart or something that "pats him on the back" for staying in bed until a specific time). When my son was younger we would have "quiet time" after lunch, he did not have to sleep but had to stay quiet in his room (reading or playing quietly). Another thought for your son's nap is to slowly cut back on his noon nap time, keep the same going to nap time but only let him nap for 1 hour instead of 1 1/2 hrs, this may help with him needing more sleep at night thus staying asleep longer. Another thought is if there is "quiet" regular morning noise in the neighborhood that is "keying" him to wake up then maybe look at using a "white noise" machine.

I went back & looked at your other posting & then googled the sun/moon nightlight. I agree that it is a little spendy (and possible creepy at first - I just showed the photos to my 5yr old & he liked it), I also saw this link & they are having a contest that ends in a few days & the winner gets one of these nightlights, it might be a way for you to get one for free. http://parentreviewers.com/featured/blog-giveaway-good-ni...

Because your son has been waking up this early for a while it may be hard to break but hopefully something will work soon for you & your family. Good luck

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