Is This Helpful or Mocking?

Updated on October 10, 2013
G.♣. asks from Springfield, IL
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A person is walking and trips on something. As they are tripping, another person says, "Be careful!" Do you find this statement to be helpful, as in "Be careful as you fall. Brace yourself, and try not to get hurt?" Or is the statement mocking because it was said after the fact - the person already triped, so waht is the point of saying "Be careful?"

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T.S.

answers from San Francisco on

I don't think it's either helpful or mocking, it's just a knee jerk response, that's all. It's like saying "watch out" even though whatever is going to happen has already started happening, you know? I wouldn't read anything into it.

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E.T.

answers from Albuquerque on

It's just a verbal utterance - nothing more. It's kind of silly to say "be careful" when someone trips, but people say it because they want to acknowledge that something just happened but don't have anything else to say. I wouldn't see it as mocking unless it was said by a jerk with a mocking tone.

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J.K.

answers from Wausau on

It is often an automatic reaction to seeing the event. It means little to nothing.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

Sorry - if I see someone trip - I try and help them or warn them - even if it appears to be after the fact. It's CONCERN.

If the person watching laughs - well - then I think it's mean. However....in the case of a person texting and walking at the same time - and they trip or hit a pole? Sorry...I laugh...I really do. That something is THAT important - urgh...

Any way - the point of saying BE CAREFUL - is CONCERN. Some might ask - are you okay? do you need help? it's shows one paying attention and one's concern for another.

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answers from Dallas on

Whoever thinks it's mocking needs a reality check. It's absurd to think any different.

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B.C.

answers from Norfolk on

It's meant to be helpful - it's not mocking.
It's an interjection.
"Interjections show excitement or emotion"
(Thank you School House Rock!)
It's just another way to say 'pay attention' <to what you are doing>.
Paying attention will help them to avoid doing it again.

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O.O.

answers from Los Angeles on

Neither.
I think it's just an acknowledgement of an event.

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L.U.

answers from Seattle on

It's mocking if someone says, "Have a nice trip?" It's concern if someone says, "Be careful!" It's bitchy if you laugh!

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H.L.

answers from Houston on

I think that it's more a reaction to seeing somebody trip...like putting your arm across the passenger seat when you stop short or saying, "Bless you," following someone's sneeze. It's a mindless something that people do in direct response to the event.

I would not spend any time thinking about it.

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G.F.

answers from Philadelphia on

Neither, it is concern.

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C.N.

answers from Baton Rouge on

I used to say "Be careful" when someone tripped, until my ex pointed out pretty much what you said - that it's too late to warn someone to be careful AFTER they've tripped. It was not intended to be mocking, just an expression of concern.
After that, I started asking, "Are you okay?"

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S.J.

answers from St. Louis on

I find that most observers in situations like this are quite embarrassed, almost more so than the person falling. When that happens, they often say things that seem silly at the time or don't make sense, such as a warning to be careful. It is neither mockery nor a sign of helpfulness, it is just an awkward reaction to a crappy situation. The person is *trying* to be helpful in a situation where they are simply not able to be.

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V.B.

answers from Jacksonville on

Like the others, I think it is an admonition from a place of concern. It also MAY serve to cover over embarrassment, by seeming to indicate that there was something that the person tripped over. Because, well, sometimes some people trip over their own feet and not anything that actually is on the ground to cause them to trip.

It's a polite reaction, vs. "Watch where you're going, idiot."

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T.F.

answers from Dallas on

I wouldn't read anything into it.

Most of the time, the person who trips is embarrassed and the observer sometimes tries to lighten the moment.

Around here.. when one of us happens to trip or something we say "see you next fall".

Of course, we don't say that to someone we don't know because who knows if they can take a lighthearted joke or be offended. You never know how someone will interpret things these days.

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K.M.

answers from Chicago on

Typically you are saying "Be Careful" too late, but you often see the event about to happen. The other option is that you want them to be careful with the landing, you can easily break something or seriously strain something or worse, cut yourself while trying to grasp on to something ... the possibilities are endless. I do not think it is rude when said in a caring manner. There IS a way and tone that is obviously being rude, however in most cases I find it to be genuine concern.

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M.C.

answers from Chicago on

I see it neither helpful or mocking. Most likely a knee-jerk reaction.

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A.P.

answers from Washington DC on

It's neither of your choices. It's being bossy/mother-henish.

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V.P.

answers from Columbus on

It didn't bother me until I heard it in another language, where they said "be MORE careful." In that language, it sounded like an admonition.

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

My guess is they were trying to warn you but said it too late.

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S.G.

answers from Grand Forks on

It depends. You have to be there to see and hear it in context. Sometimes something like a trip can happen so quickly, what might have been meant as a warning before the fact comes out after the fact. Or it can be meant to minimize damage. The person tripping may want to be careful to direct their fall onto the grass and not in front of the moving car. It may just be said to show concern, like "I hope you are OK." You might say it to a child after the fact as a reminder, "If you are not careful that is what happens". Maybe it is chastising, like "Watch where you are going, you nearly bumped into me when you fell." Usually you can tell by the tone of a persons voice if the intention was helpful, concern, corrective, chastising or mocking.

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J.E.

answers from Washington DC on

I guess it depends on the person. I always say be careful when someone trips, but never in a mocking way, but more in a "brace yourself so you don't seriously hurt yourself" way.

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