Isolation Anyone???

J.,

You don't really seem isolated. You're getting out on weekends, have a MOPS group, and run races. You must have big social needs that aren't being met by your current situation. Instead of more, maybe you just need a quality connection with one or two close friends that you could visit with during the week with your kids. Good luck.

Where do you live? Go to the library and find out if there is a Preschool PTA. If there is, join and GET INVOLVED! You will meet a ton of people. I felt so isolated before moving to Avon Lake (we didn't have Preschool PTA there) then I got involved and now I have all kinds of people to talk to. God Luck.

Have you met anyone in your MOPS group that you could invite over for lunch or to have a playdate with your daughter? Do you belong to a church? Ours has a weekly group that gets together (mostly for the moms!). Another idea would be to enroll her in a class or go to library storytime and strike up a conversation with someone. I know it's not easy!

Good luck with your 10K! I'm doing a 4 miler on the 10th. (Still new at running!)

A.

Hello J.,
Yes, I have some too, I am married and I work outside the home, but I rarely ever get away from my husband or daughter. I need my space and some time to be with other moms.
All my friends have children, but most of them are all grown up or are teens. I am an older mom and my friends don't really relate to what I am going through or have thier own issues in which I won't be facing for years to come. I would love to have some company
My daughter is 30 months old and I am 39. I live on the East side. Reynoldsburg to be exact. I work for the Federal Government at DSCC. I am going to school part-time.
Even if you would just like to trade e-mail back and forth for a tme that would be great to.

Thanks
S.

i am a stay at home mom ALL of the time including weekends so i know how lonely and isolated you feel during the week.
to beat the lonliness, i have to say myspace.com is a lifesaver. if i cant get out and about, i can certainly keep in touch and chat with friends both old and new. it helps a lot. also, joining a fitness program where there are other women to talk to helps. let me first say that if you join curves, dont count on losing any weight. but you will have a good time there and make friends. (if it is worth over 300 dollars to you to have 30 minutes of small talk 3 times a week). another thing to do is volunteer once a week to cook and bring a good meal to an elderly person. i started doing that and it really does become my purpose for that day. it takes up some time and is rewarding. try to contact good friends you havent seen in a while. host an afternoon get together for other moms. find someone in your neighborhood who enjoys walking and meet them half way for a little stroll a few times a week. if you know someone who sells pampered chef or tastefully simple or something like that offer to host a show for them at your house. all you have to do is get the people together. then sit back and enjoy good food. (not to mention free products!)these are just a few things ive tried to beat my lonliness and be around people. give some a try and see how much quicker your days go by!

Hey J.! I had the same problem when I had my first child. I too was fairly new to my area. I found a Mom's Club in my area (Mom's Club of Enon). You can go to momsclub.com I think and locate one in your area (although our club has members from Beavercreek to Springfield). I'm not just trying to get you to join a club, though it is different as all our events you stay with your child (mine also have separation anxiety!). Most are playgroups in members homes, days at the park, etc. The best part is that I have made my own friendships. I get along with everyone, and have great conversations at playgroups, but have also made a few close friends that are just for ME. That I can call to vent, or have a "Girls night out". It has made all the difference! I hope you can find something like that as well. Good luck!

Well, J., you've taken a great first step.
Getting out to find other Moms is a good way to find support.
Good luck on your race, know you are not alone, and write to me anytime.
Best Wishes,
K.

If you suffering from isolation issues, you could always do a home party. Invite a few co-workers, neighbors, friends, and family members over for a girls night out. I am a Natural Famliy Boutique consultant (I became one so that could meet new people) and I would love to do a party for you. As a hostess you could earn up tp 5 items at half off and 35% off of your order...there are also Dar A Luz International, a group of women who meet on the 3rd Tues. of every month. Let me know if your interested and I'll email you directions!
Take care,
Andi
PS. Oh, a little about Natural Family Boutique, they provide products that support natural family living. Our motto is "Helping you parent naturally, from conception to college!" my website is: www.NatureWiseFamily.com