Jff-dream Girl

Updated on June 05, 2011
H.D. asks from Allen, TX
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Hi all,

I know my hubby loves me and is perfectly happy in our marriage but I'm actually not his "dream girl" looks wise. His ideal look of a woman is best described as Jessica Biel or Penelope Cruz. I'm the furthest opposite of that- I'm a blonde haired, blue eyed girl. I'm just wondering if you are your hubby's ideal "dream girl", looks wise?

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C.J.

answers from Lancaster on

I asked hubby this question. His response? "I didn't even know I had a dream girl until I met you". D'awwww.

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A.W.

answers from Kalamazoo on

Oh, he just didn't know what his dream girl was until he met me! I redefined everything!!!!!

Woman power!!!

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J.C.

answers from Columbus on

I think my husband likes freckles. Freckles and smart and wicked funny. Unfortunately, my freckles are age spots, I'm absent minded, and not as funny as he is.

But we laugh and say "Ha ha. Too late. You're stuck with me, Sucka"

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S.B.

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I'm fairly certain my hubby's dream girl is one with boobs who lets him touch them.

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J.C.

answers from Anchorage on

not even close! lol. But that just shows that love is way stronger than lust or attraction.

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K.I.

answers from Los Angeles on

I am.

~My husband tells the best story about how we met, (that I did not even know till almost a year after we started dating) anyway....we met at work and apparently when he was on his job interview and taking the tour of the company he saw me (I did not see him) and thought I was the most beautiful girl he had ever laid eyes on and that he just knew that he had to have me! When he started the job he apparently asked all the other guys about me, was I single, etc.? He then proceeded to flirt with me and ask me out (repeatedly) until I agreed. He eventually got fired b/c he was spending too much time chatting it up with me! Isn't that cute?

It's almost 14 years later and he still thinks I am the prettiest girl in the world...I am pretty sure it's my freckles that did it for him...that and my (once) great figure!

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T.B.

answers from Bloomington on

I'd say I am. When I mention going back to my naturally brown hair, he tells me he likes it blond. Whenever I change clothes with him in the room, he turns into a horny teenager. (boobs!!) Sure, I am a little heaver than I'd like, but he doesn't seem to mind.

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K.P.

answers from New York on

Before we met he dated tall dark-haired girls. At 5' with blonde hair & a scathing wit I like to think he redefined his idea of a dream girl!

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M.M.

answers from Tucson on

Mine liked really fat girls. Im not fat enough. I'm not kidding either. lol

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M.H.

answers from Raleigh on

My hubby's are Jennifer Love Hewitt and Teri Hatcher. I am taller, red hair, green eyes...just like you, I look nothing like them! :P

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A.C.

answers from Savannah on

There's a song about that..."She's More" by Andy Griggs. A sweet song, but totally how BOTH of us felt! Check out the lyrics to it---that was the first song we ever danced to, in the park at Bedford Boy's Ranch, actually, after having a talk about how happy he was. He unofficially proposed that night, and bought the ring and did it "officially" a month later.
My "type" was Russell Crowe in The Gladiator! Not skinny or "big", just.....big enough, lol. Built, cut, whatever you call it. 5'10 or so (someone I could reach, lol) with black or brown hair, blue eyes, slightly scruffy, and into motorcycles. Always dated dark haired guys with goatees and motorcycles, or at least a tow-headed soccer player. Fell head over heels for my lean, 6'2" white haired, hazel eyed, clean cut motorcycle hater and never looked back.
His "type" was 5'8 (I'm 5'2), with curves (I'm more beachball than curved nowadays), auburn hair, green eyes, tan (instead of my blond hair, blue eyes, pinkish or "healthy glow" but never "tan" skin with freckles). He is absolutely in love with me and I do not doubt it. We're both a perfect fit, totally attracted to each other, and we've thanked God for not giving us what was on a "check list" because neither of us really knew what we needed, really wanted, or actually LIKED until we found each other.

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G.T.

answers from Washington DC on

I am his. If he told me something different, he'd be history.

added: My story is exactly like InMy30'sAlready is. My husband got fired too for hanging out with me. Too Funny.

He said the first time he saw me in my faded, cutup jeans and my hair all a mess when I got out of my jeep, he had to get to know me.

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S.R.

answers from Kansas City on

I am! After 2 kids I do need to loose some weight though.

Like S H. - he has put on weight since the kids too, haha.

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T.T.

answers from Dallas on

My husband liked blondes when he met me(I have dark hair), but apparently he's moved to the "dark" side and likes brunettes now! He's a leg man, and I've always hated my legs even though he thinks they are beautiful (even after gaining 25+ lbs!). He has lots of dream girls who are on his "list", but he loves me and thinks I'm beautiful! I think I'll go give him a big kiss now!

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C.J.

answers from Milwaukee on

His only 'lives' in Japanese anime. Huge breasted Asian girl with BRIGHT RED HAIR. Gotta love his imagination!

K.M.

answers from Chicago on

Nope, but he thinks I am beautiful; and he knows he can not find a personality or attitude towards how a relationship should be to keep it successful... my man too likes Jessica Biel.

T.C.

answers from Dallas on

Yes, I think I am:-) He has no favorite movie star girl and still seems completely smitten after 9.5 years of marriage:-) I was blonde (fake) when we got married, and now I"m my natural, and sometimes I think he'd like it blonde again. Maybe one day, but for now, I like it my natural color. But that's the only thing I can think of...

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S.H.

answers from Honolulu on

Yah, I am/was. Except I am not all skinny anymore after having kids.
He is not either. LOL!

L.M.

answers from Portland on

Nope. Mine likes petite big breasted asian girls. Definitely not me, haha! Well, I guess I do have the big breasts going for me at least.

C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

Sophia Lauren - pin up girls from the 1950s....that's what my hubby likes!!!

He doesn't like skinny bean poles...he likes curves...now, could I get away with losing some of my curves...yeah!!! working on it!

A.G.

answers from Houston on

My husband likes kate beckinsale, more so with age and in her family comedies. he likes angelina jolie also, but who doesnt!!....even i like her, lmao, jk

my husband usually likes brunettes, im a bottle blonde for life (it just looks better on me) he has made it clear he prefers me blonde.

my ideal(even thought you didnt ask) brad pitt, but hes an alien, obviously so if i were to pick a human being itd be john corbett (aiden on sex and the city)

yum!

hahahahha i love sara b's answer!

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R.J.

answers from Seattle on

The exact opposite of me.

Tiny, pixie like, asian girl.

While I'm 6'1 and nordic.

There's no even TRYING to compete.

T.S.

answers from San Francisco on

Mine loves Selma Hayek (sp?) and I can't blame him, she is beautiful! I am nothing like her, average height and weight, blonde hair, blue eyes.
MY current crush is Jon Hamm from Mad Men, such a HUNK!

L.G.

answers from Austin on

My husband loves brunettes, dark eyes, fair skin, long hair.........I'm all of those . ;))

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