M.Q.
First - you need to have realistic expectations of what a 3 yr old can do. Most recitals for this age are terrible (in the cutest sense of the word) because at this age they simply do not have the gross motor or memorization skills to complete a recital in any degree of perfection.
Having said that I agree you want your child to go somewhere that they are teaching proper form and technique. My just turned 4 yr old completed her first year of ballet at THE DANCE MOVEMENT. While it was the cutest thing I ever saw. (How could it not be it is YOUR kid), it was also very far from perfect. In my personal opinion ALL recitals are highway robbery.
Having said all that - The Dance Movement is located at the corners of Plano, McKinney and Allen at Custer and 121. The owner Lori, was a professional dancer and all her instructors are trained professionals many of whom are now mommy's themselves. I highly recommend them. My 6 yr old also took ballet from them.
Do yourself a favor and tell yourself this is for fun and gross motor skill development - not prima ballerrina training- and you will have a much happier experience.
Good luck.
M.