Looking for a Lawyer in Kane County

Hi D., My name is Mariza,
you are right the attorney is milking you, thats what they do, I would like to give you some great information that can help you save i just dont want to be reported for soliciting on the web site.
If you do want the info pls reply.

Hmmm. I'm confused. A good lawyer will not ask for money up front when someone is in your situation. I think they are milking you big time! Usually costs are done after the divorce. In your case, since he's cheating and says he wants to be with this chick, you can ask for him to cover some costs.

Your husband cheated; that's grounds for divorce. That's pretty simple. Each child receives around 20% of his salary. If he doesn't like it, that's too bad. He made his decisions, and that's the law. 21 years is a long time, you'll get some money out of this.

One of you files, preferably you first. Take the emotions out of this, no matter how hard it is. Make sure your kids are taken care of, and yes, that they have time with their father as hard as that may be. This is not time to be an emotional wreck. You need to think business matters, and the fact that your children need to see dad and keep things as normal as can be at this point in time.

If you can't afford the house, don't keep it. If there are car payments, or he offers you the car, be careful. You may be better off asking for money rather than the car, get yourself a cheap, but safe one and use the rest for savings or other start up costs. Talk to a financial counselor so that you know what you will need long term for you and your kids.

He'll need to give you some time to get a job, find childcare etc.

Make sure you tell your children's teacher and or counselors so they can be there as support if needed.

Good luck.

Ouch...that's a lot.

I guess what I'm wondering is what has happened in your case so far? What has the $7500 gone towards?

I'm using J. Wiesner in West Chicago and I've paid her $2000 and should be going before the judge in about 24 days. My ex is doing a settlement agreement...so my attorney met with me and found out everything I wanted and wrote it down and gave it to them.

What I like about her is the fact that she doesn't appear to have an ego, responds well to email (I hate making phone calls while at work or when the kids are home) and tells me stuff that I need to know. So far I'm happy with the way she has been handling things.

I am a counselor in W Dundee and have known people to be very pleased with the work of Ben Schwatrz and Assoc., 303 W Main, W. Dundee, ###-###-####. My heart is with you.

D., check out www.administerjustice.org They cover Kane & McHenry Counties. They can counsel you on what to do when and help with legal assistance; there are lawyers available, and I believe they charge a minimum based on income, mostly to cover court costs. Give them a call.

D.,
I am so sorry for your situation. I don't know of a lawyer for you but as another mother of a son with autism I will keep you in my prayers and send some positive thoughts your way! Hang in there and I hope that your divorce goes through quickly and painlessly!
D. L.

D.,
I've been through a divorce also and it can be rough, emotionally and financially for everyone. I have two pieces of advice for you. Instead of a lawyer, who will win at all costs and promotes a competitive environment, hire a mediator. A mediator negotiates with the two of you for the most fair settlement and parenting agreement, is unbiased and is usually a lawyer who can file the final papers with the court. The two of you would split the mediator fees. If there is a lot of conflict a mediator can put you in separate rooms and continue the negation that way too. If your ex-husband does not agree to this it can be court ordered as well. It can save you money and really promotes fairness (if that's even possible in a divorce) and keep the best interest of kids in mind.

My second piece of advice to you (easer said than done) is to put on your business hat. Figure out what you need for you and your kids, focus on being a Mommy instead of an ex-wife. Think of him as their Dad instead of the bastard ex-husband. And both of you keep your kids as the number one priority, playing the role of parents (together or not) will go along way in protecting your kids from the sting of divorce. Rising above the hurt and distress that you must be going through in front of your children will do wonders for them. Then be sure so take TIME FOR YOURSELF, go out with a girlfriend or your (adult) family and let it all out.

I wish you the best. Hang in there.
K.

You can have him pay for it:) You can have it (and usually do)put in your divorce papers that he pays all legal fees. He should anyway since he wants this...or you can choose not to agree to terms and let him decide if he wants this to happen...and tell him to fork over the cash...

Prairie State Legal Services works with people in Kane County on a sliding fee scale. Here is the link to their website. http://www.pslegal.org/. I have heard very good things about them from grandparents in my support group - Grandparents Raising Grandchildren. I'm in Cook County so I have never used them. Good luck and I'm so sorry.

BTW - Do you attend the Autism Society Chapter Mtgs? I would highly recommend it. I have three on the spectrum and they are a very valuable resource.

D., my friend and neighbor is a lawyer, her practice is in Sycamore (DeKalb county) but I know she can and does go to court in Kane county often. Her name is Laurel Wykes Smith and her office phone is ###-###-####. She does alot of divorce cases.

Not sure if you want to trek all the way to Sycamore, but I would give her a call anyway.

Dear D.,

A man who leaves his wife and family for another woman can never be a winner. He has lost his family. Since you work part time you may qualify for an attorney who works free or on a sliding scale fee. I'm not sure of the services in Kane county. I would try http://www.kanebar.org/public/legalaid.html

D.,
I am sorry to hear about your situation. I work mostly with attorneys handling real estate but have worked with Janet Ellingson in Elgin (Larkin & Weston) who also handles family law. ###-###-####. She is a wonderful woman and I would highly recommend her. Feel free to contact her for an opinion about your situation and options going forward.
Good luck!

Law Office of Miriam Cooper
1515 East Woodfield Road
Suite 630
Schaumburg, IL 60173
###-###-#### Phone
###-###-#### Fax

They have a very good reputation.

Good Luck!

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this. I was married for 19 years and we had two kids. Our divorce was very amicable and we used one attorney. I wouldn't recommend that to most people. I did really like my attorney and still consult him for other things. I never felt he was trying to make a load of money off of me and still feel he is an honest, good attorney. You can message me if you need more info, or if you want to tell him I sent you.
Bobbi
http://www.lawyers.com/Illinois/Wheaton/Thomas-M.-Newman-...

Hi D. - Please contact these two women. I don't know if they work in Kane County but if they don't they will be able to refer you to help.
The first one is Nicole Brucker - ____@____.com You are her focus - "Do you know of someone between the ages of 40 and 65 who is contemplating or experiencing a divorce? If so, please contact me so I may guide them through this overwhelming process and ensure they make the best possible financial decisions that will last them a lifetime."
The second woman I am recommending you contact is
Law Office of Anne Chestney Mudd
3958 Hampton Ave., Western Springs, IL 60558
County: Cook

Phone: ###-###-####
Fax: ###-###-####
Website: http://www.annemudd.com

I cannot stress enough how fabulous these two women are! And they are passionate about helping women get the fairness in a divorce they deserve. Please tell them I sent you and I wish you all the best.
K. McClure