J.B.
The fault lies with the boy. Don't go over like a banshee (I would also be infuriated, but you have to breathe a bit and be calm), but call and ask the mom or dad if they are aware of what happened. Let them know how hurt your daughter is and that a lot of precious pictures and contacts are now lost, plus he used up a number of texting minutes. See how they respond. IF they are also horrified and are going to take him to task, then great -that's all that can be accomplished at this point. IF however, they laugh it off and don't see what a big deal it is, then I would firmly and coldly tell them that if they couldn't see why their son needed to apologize, then I at least expected the minutes to be paid that he used -and I would find other transportation for your daughter. Kids do ridiculous stuff like this sometime, so you don't want to throw it all away because of a boy's poor judgment -it's all in how the parents react that makes the difference.