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Congratulations on your decision to start your own business!
Here's a link to the women's commission in Charlotte, with resources for you. http://www.charmeck.org/Departments/Womens+Commission/Job...
And also the small business association has resources. http://www.sba.gov/localresources/district/nc/index.html
When I started my at-home business 8 years ago I went to a free seminar there. Very helpful! It was led by a volunteer attorney, business owner, and CPA.
In case you're interested, I lead a free 30-minute web conference on Monday evenings to show people the business building strategy we use with our team of eco-entrepreneurs, and see whose name that calls. Feel free to email me for the web conference access information.