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Updated on May 14, 2013
B.P. asks from Scottsbluff, NE
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My son got hurt at school. He and another boy were racing, the other boy pushed my son and he fell and broke his arm. could I sue the parents for medical bills?

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D.B.

answers from Eau Claire on

No! Boys will be boys. The probably feels terrible already for causing the accident. Why put more stress on his family for an honest mistake. Your medical insurance (if you have it) should pick up the cost.

We are too sue happy in this country as it is.

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J.R.

answers from Davenport on

You COULD, but SHOULD YOU???? I don't think so. Kids push, accidents happen. If your son had pushed and things happened in reverse would you think they had the right to sue you to pay for their kid's medical bills???

I would also think you would spend more in court and lawyer costs that the bill to set a broken arm will be. Just pay your own bills, boys are rough and wild, and these things happen.

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M.H.

answers from Minneapolis on

Hi B.. Welcome to MP. Maybe you could sue, but I don't think you should and I think the liklihood of success is slim. I will assume this is a real question and give a real answer (first questions that seem to want to elicit strong responses are often suspicious). I am a lawyer, although I haven't practiced law for years. You would need to file your suit in small claims court (assuming it was a regular break and not something more serious that required surgery, long term therapy, etc.) and you would have court filing fees to pay and paperwork to prepare. Then you would need to prove that the boy either intended to hurt your son or was so negligent he should have known he could hurt your son. How old are the boys? That is a factor. Do you have any witnesses or other information about how it happened? Did your son willingly participate in the race and did he also do any sort of pushing or jostling?

A court is likely to find this was just a childhood incident and no one is legally liable. I'll give you a real life example. Years ago I was involved in a lawsuit in which a teenage girl was very seriously injured at a ski resort and could have died. She was standing at the bottom of the hill and a teenage boy came racing down the hill and hit her. She flew into a ski rack, ruptured her spleen and broke a small bone in her back. She spent weeks in the hospital, missed a lot of school, was in therapy and chronic pain months later and had to give up her horseback riding activities. Her parents sued for the thousands in medical bills they had incurred and for her pain and suffering. There were witnesses that testified the boy was "bombing the hill" (going straight down as fast as he could without turns or slowing down). They lost. The jury said it was just an unfortunate accident and the girl should've known accidents like this could happen at a ski resort.

I am in favor of lawsuits in the appropriate situation since my husband is a trial lawyer and defending lawsuits is how he makes his living. However, this isn't that situation. I hope your son makes a full and fast recovery.

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T.M.

answers from St. Louis on

I suppose you could, but do you really want to? Kids race, kids push, kids get hurt. It could have just as easily been your kid pushing theirs...would you want to be sued? I would just chuck it up to the expenses of childhood and let it be. If not, go ahead and put your son in a bubble now, because things like this are bound to happen again.

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H.M.

answers from Minneapolis on

Please don't take this the wrong way, but boys will be boys, accidents happen, people get hurt. I don't think you should sue for medical bills. How would you feel if your son had done the pushing and you were being sued?

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