My Doughters Dad

A., you need a lawyer. Can you go to legal aide and talk to someone? Since you have a computer, only communicate with him by email so that you have a record of what is said.

Do you have a police report about the attempted kidnapping? You need that too.

A lawyer is what you need.

Good luck,
Dawn

A. - You need to get an attorney right away. Do you have any friends who can recommend someone? Ask around and see if you can get the name of someone. You need to find someone to advocate for you. Good luck.

**And really people - someone posts a question and right away they get "troll" and "nice spelling?" Did it ever occur to anyone that English might not be someone's first language? Way to be helpful and supportive to other moms.

We can't answer this with the information you have provided.

Translation for those reading:

Ok, my daughter's Dad wants custody of our child.

He has seen her 4 times in 2 years.

He tried to kidnap her on 2 occassions.

He called CPS to come investigate me twice.

She cries everytime she sees him.

Can he take her from me?

He took her to the hospital everytime she was with him to make it look as though I was not caring for her properly.

He stole her change of clothes that I sent with her to his house in case of accidents.

OK?

The answer is, if he files a motion to gain full custody and the court agrees that he is a more fit parent then you, then YES he CAN take her from you.

If you already HAVE a legal agreement where you both SHARE custody, legally speaking, no, he cannot just 'take her'. If this happens, you DO have the right to call the police, if he breaches your legal arrangement.

If you do NOT have a legal arrangement, then as the child's father, he can do pretty much whatever he sees fit, same as you.

http://www.aboutthechildren.org/index.html
http://www.co.galveston.tx.us/306th/default.htm

There are numbers and contacts you can try for help from one of these sites.

I hope you'll keep in mind what's truly the best life for your child.

Good Luck.

:)

I am not being mean, but your post is a little hard to understand. (not just the spelling)

From what i can understand, you need outside help. It sounds like the dad is trying to take away your daughter. He is trying to make you look bad to get custody? Do you have anyone that can help you? Do you have proof that can show he is doing this to you?

I am very sorry. I hope that you can get some help.

Is this for real? If so.. then I suggest you work on your spelling. Axsadents? lol

Thank you Theresa, while I thought I got it, it was nice to see that I did after your translation.

A., get a lawyer. While you'll probably win (99% chance), you still want to be represented in court.

Good luck!

I agree with Melanie. Not nice, people.

A., get a lawyer, right away.

I don't mean to be mean and insensitive, but please get an education. Judges will place children where they feel they will be better taken care of. If a judge sees that you have little in English education, that will limit your employment opportunities, and thereby, limit your ability to care for your daughter. Whether this is true or not doesn't matter- the judge will go one perception.
Also, seek legal counsel and gather any and all paperwork for CPS and kidnapping charges.

Has he filed any paperwork yet? If not, I bet he's bluffing. It's something to say to get you upset. I wouldn't worry until he serves you with papers. Even then I wouldn't worry. He will probably get some sort of visitation, but I doubt that he can "take her" from you. Relax.

First question on MP, wow, this is a good one! Welcome!

You need help. Get cp or someboby to help you. She should not be left along with her. I will be praying f.or you. Keep us posted