Need Help to Find Lawyer!!!!!

Hi T., I'm so sorry that your man turned out to be such a butt *&%@! Go back check if you have receipts, dates of purchase, see if the woman that sold you all the daycare is willing to help. Do you have any mutual friends that are willing to testify for you. Do you have neighbors where the daycare is that maybe saw you cleaning the place up. Try to calm down and think clearly. I'm pretty sure that God will hellp you on this one. Evil people can ran but just can't hide. Remember what goes around comes around and he will pay sooner or later for what he did.

Best wishes,
Elisa

Get your bank statements together, that would be a good start to prove the money invested was yours. This was an expensive lesson to learn-next time be a lot more cautious with your money and make sure you are not the only one spending their money. Never spend all your own money when someone else is supposed to be involved! If they cannot come up with there part, it was just not meant to be!!!!!!!!! Good Luck and update us, also don't let that girl anywhere near your daughter. If her is not caring for her, keep her with you! No officer can force you to hand her over if you feel like she is not being cared for properly or by the person who is supposed to be caring for her. You don't no anything about this girl and if she is caring or your child-you should!!!

T.;
I sure hope that you can prove that everything was done with
YOUR money! That seems to be the key.
The sad part is that there isn't anything that the attorneys
can use to compensate themselves on a condtingentcy, so yes
you'll have to pay!
The key to this whole thing is proof that all this was your
money, if you can't prove that, then it is really up hill
battle. If you have checks to back all this up, then go to
a copier store and make copies of all of them.
Then find a "Mean" woman attorney, it will be expensive,
probably $15,000 to $20,000, but, I'm sure the home and the
business is worth more than that.
One other thing, you do not want this in front of a judge
or an arbitrator, you want a jury! Then on the jury you
want there to be more women than men! Men in a jury will
side with him even though he is the theif, women will side
with you 95% of the time!
I sincerely wish you good luck, because you have been totally
taken by a very unscrupluous Man!
What I'm afraid of is that when he locked you out of the house he destroyed all records, so you may have to go to your bank and get a set of records from them!
When you have a final judgement, please post it here!
B. C

Dear T.,

First, you need to take 3 days and just calm yourself. Step back from reacting to this person that has obviously violated your trust and taken what he wanted at your expense. Pray, meditate, and be still just to listen to yourself what you want out of life at this point. You will get what you speak that you want. (Example: "I am solving all situations with confidence and ease so that I can give my daughter the calm and peaceful home she and I deserve and a true love relationship can come into my life.") Yes, write down what you want as if it has already happened. You need an attorney. If you do not have the money right now, go to a women's shelter to get referred to an attorney or just look one up in the phone book that does Pro Bono work (free) or sliding scale. You are young, strong and blessed already with a daughter. You can do this, it will just take a while to unravel all the entanglements. You have to decide what you want BEFORE you see an attorney. You do need a professional's help. I hope your family is there for you, but you are the one who has to do the work of deciding what you want in life, and they are there to support you in that effort. Good Luck. I will say a prayer for you tonight.
Mama Rogers

I recommend contacting Attorney Rick Noll. He has helped some friends of mine in the past, and would be a good choice for you. God Bless you in this time of trouble. I am praying for you.

K..

It's very unfortunate that you trusted him. It's also unfortunate that you were not married before you got pregnant. None of this would happening now because everything would be decided as part of the divorce settlement. Most lawyers require a $1500 retainer fee so that is no surprise. Since you paid for so much can you get bank record proof? If so it would be clear that the monies paid were yours and not his. If your name was added to anything you would have had to sign. I assume you did not sign anything? How does this guy have visitation rights? Does he pay child support? I really hope you are not just trying to be nice by letting him have visitation for nothing. I really hope everything works out for you but the only thing you can really do is pay for a lawyer or try to get free counsel.