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COLOR - get color on the walls.... most of the decorating magazines, I find, are just so completely NOT "liveable" when you have kids. Have you gone to Pandemonium in Grapevine? A lot of places (like that) offer decorating services for a fee... work with a decorator to just bounce some ideas off of. It's crazy because I have friends that want me to come to their homes to help them decorate because I can "see" things and opportunities when they can't b/c they're in it every day. I can say... OH... a roman shade there with a gathering of books / candles would look fantastic... but in my own home... I suffer from the same thing you are! LOL... want to trade? I'll do yours and you can do mine!