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An irregular breathing pattern is normal for newborns. It is normal for babies to pause when they breathe, especially as newborns and young infants. As long as she doesn't pause for more than 15-20sec and her color looks good (pink) there is usually no cause for concern. I am a pediatric nurse and mom of a 3yr old and 26wks pregnant with my second. I COMPLETELY understand the fear of the way they breathe. At work the kids are on monitors (ICU) so we know if something is wrong - we of course don't have that at home, but given my career I was always scared that something would happen and I wouldn't know (like SIDS). Alot of us at work joke about wanting a monitor for our new babies (or kids when they were babies) to give us peace of mind :)
If you are really concerned, speak with your pediatrician about this. But like I said, as long as the pauses aren't lasting more than 15-20sec and her color remains the same, she should be fine.
Good luck and congrats on your new baby girl!