K.G.
Hi V.,
You need to consult a doctor. I used to get sinus infections a lot, and I had laser surgery to trim the part of the nasal passages that swells -- the turbinates, or something like that. You do not have to be all the way out, just in a "twilight" state. The procedure (I had it 18 years ago) made a huge difference for me. Now it takes a pretty horrible cold to completely plug up my nose. However, if you get this procedure, make sure the ENT has done a ton of them. Over trimming the turbinates can lead to a chronically dry nose. Have you ever tried prescription nose sprays (w/ corticosteroids?). You can take them every day, though it takes a week or so for them to take effect. Usually this is the first step before more invasive procedures. Also, I am assuming you have tried different allergy meds? You won't really know if they work until your nose is weaned off of those other sprays. Steam might help you as you wean yourself off of them. Put boiling hot water in a bowl in your sink, put a towel over your head, and lean over the sink. Just be careful not to touch your face to the hot water. You can also run a hot shower in a closed bathroom. At the drug store, you can find a kit by NeilMed with a specially designed spray bottle and packets for mixing with water to create correctly balanced saline solution (the salt is extremely fine so that it mixes easily with the water). Using it flushes out your nose and sinuses and also any allergens. Finally, if you can afford to do this, acupuncture is excellent for draining your nose and sinuses. It's pretty amazing. I'm guessing you would need to do it frequently (daily?) until your nasal passages return to their pre-spray state. There is no getting around the fact that these OTC nasal sprays have a rebound effect (meaning that your nasal passages compensate for your having used them by puffing up a bit more) that makes them addictive, which is why the labels say three days max. Get help from a doctor to get off of these sprays and then see what other methods help. The doctor might have some way to make getting off the sprays easier, or s/he might not. Either way, until you get off the stuff, you cannot pursue a more viable long-term solution. When people have nasal surgery (including the one I mention above), they have to have their noses packed with gauze for several days. You cannot breathe through your nose at all. It's horrible, but you make it through. You'll need some help taking care of your kids because you will be so tired, but then you can start to truly take care of yourself.