T.O.
Hi J.,
WIth my kids we use 2 things...TONS of rubbermaid/sterlite type plastic bins. This helps keeps things organized and neat and also teaches them to clean-up after themselves. Our "rule" (some of the time) is that they need to put the toys away in 1 bin before opening another. Another thing we have is a bin rack...Target/ToysRUs sell them. It's a wooden shelving thing with open shoebox like bins. It's also great b/c each box gets a "type of toy." One downside is the kids used to dump the bins and stuff would be everywhere. The bins with the tops seem to keep things much neater, but we use both.
1 other thing I do is to keep 1 basket in our family room for toys that weren't put away or toys thay they are "into" at the moment. I try to clean this out every week or two and "sort" the toys and have the kids out them back into the right bin.
The playroom and family room are pretty neat using these things....now if I could only keep the rest of my house clean! Congrats on #2!