My husband does the same thing. He'll even try to hand me my debit card when I'm in the middle of typing something. I tell him "I'm not ready for that right now, please hand it to me later or simply put it in my purse in the slots in the front pocket". He won't touch my purse except to carry it for me if my hands are full so he will hardly ever put it up, in it's home place...
What you need to do is pick ONE day of the week. If your trash comes on Tuesday then you need to pick Monday evening. While you watch TV or something sitting down you need to have a trash can, a file folder for those things that you need to keep, and some other things that will help you sort through these.
When I am sorting through my pile I have the trash can on my left, a tub for school papers that need to be looked at more closely but it's often just stuff brought home, and I have a stack of papers that are mine...that I need to read and then toss or save in my own space.
I can get through a stack a couple of feet high in a half hour. THEN I have about half because I threw a bunch away. Now, I take one of the piles and resort it. Let's say I have a stack of school stuff.
Letters/note from authority figures go in one pile. Art, possible keepsake materials, etc...in another. Calendars, events, birthday party invites, etc...things that have to be checked and scheduled go in another pile. Remaining things, if there are any, are put in one pile that might need to just be its own pile.
Other stuff is sorted logically too.
Any bills go on my bulletin board until they're paid.
Recipes, coupons, and sale sheets from the newspaper go into the kitchen where I make the shopping list and menus.
Every single piece of paper can be placed in a folder, stack that will be used when you're planning a shopping trip, put in a place of importance so it can be paid, put where you are going to go through your calendar to organize/schedule things.
It can all be done.
Just pick one day per week when it is YOUR job to sit down with that pile and go through it. Have an alarm set on your cell phone, have your google calendar or yahoo calendar send you a reminder for 2 hours, 1 hour, 30 minutes before so you can get that reminder and remember and get stuff moving along so you have that time without any interruptions.
I did mine while we watched Castle. Then Kate went stupid again and moved out so we stopped watching it. Guess what, I forgot to do my pile of paper stuff. So do use the reminder option, it will help you get moving on it.
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