L.D.
MRI is the only way to properly diagnose a tear. I would have done it just be sure you know what you are dealing with. You can decide for or against surgery but having worked for and orthopedic surgery practice I can say that the only way to really repair a meniscus tear is arthroscopic (this is the proper term- there is no such thing as orthoscopic). Some people's symptoms improve to their satisfaction without surgery but the tear is not repaired. The vast majority of patients I saw were very happy with the results. Athletes who were dedicated to their sport took there recovery slowly, seriously and trained properly and went back to doing what they loved. I particularly remember a man who went back to semi-competitive skiing. Whether you have surgery or not, you will always be more prone to further injury and arthritis in this knee. With two kids who are very young, it will be a little harder to restrain yourself during your recovery. I have a three yr old who still requires lifting, kneeling at bathtime, physical restraint during tantrums or whom I have to chase after occasionally etc. This type of activity would make recovery harder to do properly and you would need extra help. You would also need time for physical therapy most likely. Please be sure to find an orthopedic specialist who performs arthroscopic meniscus repair surgery routinely, not occasionally should you opt for surgery. Good luck to you!