Real Stories from Moms Who Have Had a Tubal Ligation or Essure...

I had a tubal done at 37, 8 weeks after I had my second child vaginally. I had told them before I had my baby I wanted done but they told me they don't do them at the same time (scheduling issues for the doctor and operating room) even though it's easier for them since your "all up there"already. The worst part for me was that night and next couple of days, my shoulders hurt (they tilt you on a table which causes this). My shoulders bothered me more than my incision (I just wore big clothes and had to watch how I nursed my baby). I didn't take the pain medicine they gave me because I was nursing and didn't feel comfortable taking it, I just took tylenol and that was all I needed. I actually took the baby and my 5yr to the baby doctor for the baby's wellness appt the next day and attended a huge family reunion the second and third day after.

I had a tubal ligation after having three children back in 2000. I had 3 c-sections and I really wanted another baby but both my husband and doctor said I better not try again. I did not have any problems with the tubal ligation and there are days where I wish I never had it done because I do not like having a middle child.

Hey, I'm 29...my son was born almost 9 months ago by c-section. Both my kids were delivered c-section and I've been informed there is no option for a VBAC due to my bicornuate uterus. The babies grow too large to turn when they are supposed to as well as not being able to push due to the bicornuate uterus. Anyway, due to the medical issues and the fact that we are happy with our family of 4, I had a tubal done back in October. I don't know the specifics about long term, but so far I have had a good experience with the tubal. I have noticed an increase in pain during menstrual and the time of ovulation (or when it would have been - still not sure how that works). However, over the past 3-4 months those increased pains have lessened, so I think they may be going back to normal. I hope things go well for you with whatever you choose.
As far as the reason for your husband not having a vasectomy done, I found that to be very understanding and nice of you to think "just in case" ahead. You don't hear many people think things out like that and I was impressed...just thought I would commend you on being so kind, just in case. Sounds like your hubby is blessed to have someone who cares so much for his happiness, God forbid something ever happening!

I just had my third child at the age of 41 and since I had a c-section I had a tubal at the same time. The recovery was no different and I haven't noticed anything different since I had it done. It just takes the worry out of everything. Good luck.

I am 39 and a month away from having our 3rd. I will be getting a tubal during my C Section. However, if I wasn't having a Section, hubby would be getting the old SNIP SNIP. It is nothing for men to get it done compared to surgery for us.
From what I have read, tubals are safe at our age. Ask me in another month what I think! lol

I had a tubal ligation after my last child - I had a c section, and they did it right after delivering. I've had no problems, and it is wonderful to not worry about birth control.

J.

I had a tubal litigation done seven years ago,because my DD's are almost 9 years apart. I have had no problems with it and noone else that I know that has had one has either. Hope that helps you with your decision. Good luck on your trying.
L.