E., I am so sorry you are having so much trouble. I was wondering what your husband does/ what are his skills, and if he has a TS security clearance. If he does, and has computer skills, I may have another option for you here in the springs. My husband's company is looking to hire on several new employee's and it pays really well. Shoot me an note if you want to know more. This may be the answer to your prayers.
I also wanted to let you know about my church. I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Otherwise known as Mormons. One thing that I really love about being a Mormon is that no matter where I go in the country or even in the world (and I have done both), the Church is always the same. It is based on the same principles that do not change just because I changed locations. If you would like to try it out I can help you find a meeting house in your neighborhood. Good luck, and we will all be praying for you!
Heather