Spice up a Marriage.

We do A LOT of texting back and forth on days when either of us are in the mood. By the time the babies are in bed we are both MORE than ready to go!!

How about using a blindfold and or handcuffs. It definately gets things going for me and is super fun! :)

For our last anniversary, we wanted something cheap(ish) but romantic. We rented a cabin in the mountains. IT WAS AMAZING. Drove 2 hours, stopped at a grocery store to stock up on supplies, and trekked up a mountain. We were the ONLY ones for miles, and we spent the whole weekend there bonding: cooking together, playing board games, getting in the outdoor hot tub, talking, drinking wine, and taking in the nature. It was so rejuvenating, refreshing, and very romantic. After all the hustle and bustle of life and going to exciting cities and being around people, it's awesome to just be the two of you, no one else, no cell service, tv, computers, nothing except each other.

My favorite game is with the kitchen timer. You set it for two min and get to do whatever to the other person then when the timer goes off it is their turn. We usually start off slow, but it builds the excitment until you can't stand it any longer. :)

Keep sex at the forefront of your mind for the entire day. The things you like, the things you love, what you love about it, anticipating the next time you get to do those things. Get rid of the kids. Play cards and with each lossing hand the losser gets to take off some clothes.

My husband likes when I initiate sex. So the now famous, dragging him to the bedroom and just telling him four words or even two seem to get things going. Oh the two words "Love Me" or the four words "Take your clothes off" both work just as well no other words needed.

An imagination and a bucket of ice by the bed.

Have fun and remember to keep your thoughts on the sexy side of your relationship with your husband. Gotta go...my husband is going to be thanking you later. ;-0

Take a visit to your local "dirty store" together :-) I get fired up just looking around in there ;-) LOL You can find some new and exciting things you may both be interested in !!!

Surprise him with a Brazilian wax job. My husband loved it and it kept things exciting for months on end!

When you go out on your next date night, make sure the sex comes first! Have a place figured out where you can go where there's no kids, no interruptions, and no time pressure, and just do what comes natural. After that, go on to dinner, movie, or whatever else. I guarantee the whole evening will be much more fun. My hubs and I did that on our last date, and we were grinning like crazy all through dinner and the movie. Much better than doing it last - back at home after a big meal and sleepiness setting in. Be creative about the place you go to also...it doesn't have to be a hotel, or cost anything. :)

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My husband gets "scared" coming home and the kids aren't around and I'm just standing at the top of the stairs in nothing but an apron with a glass or wine or a bottle of beer for him!! :) He gets "scared" because I have the "she's gonna eat me" look on my face!! :)

He LOVES it when he comes home from work (I'm a SAHM) and the kids are already ready for bed, I'm showered and in my "pjs" - a short dress - that just drives him W.!! I know - silly - but each man is different!!

There are "romance" games you can play as well....you can make things up as well....stick a note in his lunch box....then sneak off to his work and put a note in the car....then leave a trail for him when he comes in the door.....

use your imagination!! HAVE FUN!!!

Honestly, the best way for us to reconnect is time without the kids!! You may have to force yourself to do some romantic dinner or something instead of just going to a movie, but it's worth it! Recently we sent the kids to his sister's and spent the night in a local hotel! It was so FUN! We did "single people" things like go to the bar and stay up late LOL! but it certainly turned the light back on!! I always find time away from home is the best for us!

Hmmm I have a couple of great links you should check out that have a list of ideas to add to these great ideas suggested by the mamas on here. I also want to recommend sexting lol. Flirty texts/sexts will get your hubby while hes at work or while you guys are not near eachother will create some fun sexual anticipation for when you are together. Here are some other ideas:

http://www.theskinnyscoop.com/question/q/2805?utm_campaig...

http://www.theskinnyscoop.com/question/q/2988?utm_campaig...

http://www.theskinnyscoop.com/question/q/1131?utm_campaig...

Good luck and have fun ;)

Watch Fireproof with Kirk Cameron. LOL

A few days ago I met a woman with an interesting job...sex expert at Fascinations, a huge "adult" store in CO and AZ. She said that the company offers free seminars twice a month on all sorts of things...racy to things like your questions. She also has a radio show and a blog where she answers questions, so maybe send the question to her(Shanna on the below site)?

Also, she said they recently opened in CO Springs and that the store is doing super well so maybe next time you're up north, check it out? Looks like you can buy most stuff on their site if it's too far/too embarrassing to go.

http://shop.funlove.com/store/

"Toys" we got ours online, because I turn bright red when walking into a store : ) The bullet is a nice toy for beginners ~ imo. Have fun with this.

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My hubby loves to go underwear shopping for me....at first i found this very annoying...but then i saw where he was coming from. he wasnt just bring home everyday underwear for me to wear day in day out (yes he will do this too sometimes just not when he is looking for some sugar) he will bring home fancy ones now and them when our funds allow. Getting it now i take his bate...he wants to see them on me..not just for me to wear under the pants....we try and make at least an every six month stop to our local ''Grown-ups'' toy shop to see if there is anything new we may want to give a whirl...he is usually more excited then me!! its cute to see...which then gets me in the mood. we have been through so much as a couple that yes just him excited to go to grown up store and look at things is enough for me...i havent shared that with him...i am just talking out of myself now...We have the games but with three kids we never get the time...i think they can be a little cheesy too, which makes it hard to take it seriously.

The two times we got out and away , wher it was a gift from my bf and then one from his office, we got to stay free of charge including room service. ALL WE DID WAS SLEEP AND ROOM SERVICE....no knookie...we just needed the sleep!! we still laugh that we have never had our romantic get away because we fall asleep before ten thirty!!

my guy and i play this game where we write down 2 or 3 fantasys on a small sheet of paper and drop them in a hat. then we choose and do it. its simple, really fun and it opens up so many doors.
we also have the rule no judgments and no questions. nothing kills a sexy fantasy more then being asked...why do you want this??? lol
we love it. make them short enough to get through a few of them though, and descriptive enough to let it flow easily.
have fun!!!

Oil massage, for some reason all that rubbing and oil gets things going...just make sure you do the right massage so you turn him on and don't put him to sleep, it has happen to me,lol

Some of the most fun I have had that gets the hubby grinning is to play stalker for the day. I leave a sweet note on his car window for the morning. Go to his work and leave another more naughty note for him to find at lunch or before he goes home. Even if its to say to look into the glove box and find a sexy picture ( bless delete on digital cameras) something lacy or a box of chocolates. Then have him come home to no kido with a come hither note, trail of flowers to a wine bottle and me at the end not in sweats and baggy shirt for a change :-) with a finger food picnic. Find out what he thinks is sexy and dress it, or try it. If you can swing it in CO Springs the Broadmore Hotel has a romantic getaway package with dinner credit to their 5 star restaurant. It has music and dancing. Have fun.

What are your or his fantasies?